Ever think about quitting your day job?
I’m almost sure you do!
Never waking up again at 6 am to commute, never again worrying more about someone else’s bottom line, never missing another one of your baby’s firsts… never (ever) smiling like you mean it (but really, really, not meaning it) – when you’d rather just flat out punch the guy in the throat? (I worked in customer service. Can you tell?)
I’d be willing to bet MOST of us have thought about it.
But you’re a responsible person. You have bills to pay, and you’re smarter than to think you can chase some pipe dream all the way to the bank. You’re gonna put in your time and do what needs to be done to make sure you’re making a decent enough living.
That’s what grown-ups do.
I get it… ‘cus I’m that way too.
No really, I really am that way – when it comes to living the dream, I am a hard sell; I am a skeptic.
But I am also a success story.
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Three years ago, I was in a very different place in my life.
Here’s the abbreviated version:
I was settling in as a receptionist (at a job I loved, but didn’t make a killing at), after 10 years of terrible customer service work (at a job I hated, but made decent money at).
I was ready to accept the pay decrease to finally be happy.
About three months in, we found out I was pregnant. (Not unplanned, but still unexpected. We had been trying for a long time, and I was giving up on the idea of becoming a mom. Praise God for His many blessings ♥.)
It didn’t take me more than 5 minutes to decided that if we were finally going to have a baby, then I was going to raise the baby – not pay some strangers to do it for me. (This is not a slight against working moms – this is what I wanted for me and my family. I want to be the one there with my baby, day in and day out.)
But, I had no idea how I was going to do that. (Like none. It was blank inside my head.)
I had tried and tried over the years to figure out how to quit my job and work from home – as a travel agent, as a photographer, as a “crafter” (yes that’s a real thing). I had started a blog on a whim once… and given it about two weeks of “effort” before I abandoned it. I had considered transcription. But none of those things were working for me. They all felt a little like wading through waist deep mud – maybe this is why I am a skeptic?
Maybe these experiences had “proven” to me that working from home is a pipe dream? (Baffling, because both my parents work from home. I’ve seen it done!)
But this time, there was a reason bigger than just me not wanting to go to work
This time, I wanted to make working from home real for myself more than I wanted anything else in the world.
I had no idea where to start, what steps to take, how to make it happen.
Then a little voice inside my head said “You love to write – there has to be a way you can write”!
That first blog experience I had was pretty scarring. I wasted 70 bucks and WordPress had made me feel about 103 years old. (Am I the only 30 year old woman in the western world who never took a single computer class in high school?) So you wouldn’t think blogging would be the thing I would choose to do.
(I honestly can not even tell you why I chose blogging… except that God must have directed me here.)
But this time there was a big glaring difference in how I approached it.
This time, I decided that I would not fail. I decided to be all in.
I did a.l.o.t. of research. I realized that if you want to do make money at something, you need to LEARN to do it RIGHT.
There are no practicing Doctors out there who didn’t graduate from medical school, no lawyers who haven’t passed the bar. Getting an education in what you want to do is usually necessary. So I invested a decent chunk of change into a blogging course. (Which I do believe is largely responsible for my success – the course was Elite Blog Academy.
And then I worked.
I quit watching TV, quit surfing Facebook, quit shopping and cooking and showering and sleeping. I worked 50+ hours per week on the blog, while still working my desk job 4 days per week. (I was on a baby imposed deadline. It probably doesn’t have to be quite this intense – HA.)
I put in the time. (And the tears, and more money. Yes, it cost me money.) And it just started to come together.
One year later, I was making a full time income from blogging. (You can read my income reports here.) I will not be returning to a desk job (or any job). I am raising my baby and working for myself from home.
It’s not a pipe dream at all.
UPDATE: Three years in, and blogging is better than ever. The longer I do this, the more I learn.
Related: Stay at home mom jobs: the ultimate guide to earning an income from home
How to quit your job and work from home as a blogger:
First of all, start now. Just do it. (It really is dirt cheap to get started. Follow this easy, step by step tutorial here: How to Start a Blog.)
There is no time like now. If I hadn’t started a year ago, the year would still have passed.
Whatever reason you have for not starting, it’s probably not good enough. You are capable – if you decide to be.
I am nothing special.
No, really. That’s not a self-esteem “issue” statement – I’m a pretty confident lady – it’s just a fact. I have no education, no special talents, no anything about me that sets me apart from you or from anyone else. I am not more qualified than you. (Maybe I am more determined, but that’s something that you have complete control over!) I just decided to do it, and then I did it.
As far as the secret to making a full time living BLOGGING in less than a year, I believe it really does come down to a few key things.
I go over HOW to do all these things in more detail in this free mini course, but in a nutshell:
- Start your blog the right way, (with an understanding that it is not going to be easy) and with a great hosting company.
- Invest in learning how to blog. You need to treat your blog like it is your business.
- Do not get distracted by the rest of life. Your blog needs to be a priority.
- Write ONLY profitable content that will get you clicks and views and shares – AND MAKE YOU MONEY. Don’t bother writing fluff.
- Have 25 or more AWESOME, clickable posts written BEFORE you start promotion.
- Learn how to get easy page views with Pinterest. (This was essential to my success.)
- Do affiliate marketing the right way (yes, there’s definitely a wrong way)
- Learn how to get page views from OTHER sources too. (I STRONGLY recommend Lena Gott’s Traffic Transformation Guide .)
- Don’t be afraid to jump into monetization strategies right away.
- Try ALL THE THINGS! Don’t just put up some Ads and Amazon links and call it a day.
- Have patience in those first few slow painful months. Don’t give up!
I’ve put together a FREE course on how to start a blog (and make money) to help you get going in the right direction for profitability. Starting a blog for profit is different than just “starting a blog”, and there are things – important things – that you need to understand to make money blogging. ESPECIALLY if you want to make money quickly. This free course will help you get a solid foundation set up.
(Also, do get on the wait list for EBA enrollment. This course will change your blogging life. It usually opens in March.)
I’m not saying that blogging has to be the thing for you, however.
There are lots of work from home jobs that you can approach the same way I approached blogging – and be just as successful at.
Find your thing and DO YOUR THING. Choose to make the change. Stop whining about your job and fix your life.
If you’re looking for other work at home suggestions, consider becoming a virtual assistant, or try freelance writing.
I’ve always thought that transcription or proofreading looked like awesome options – more about both of those work from home ideas here.
Just start. And then don’t stop until you succeeded.
Does this apply to everyone? Does this apply to you?
Fact of the matter is, if you don’t think it DOES apply to you, then it won’t.
This only applies to you if you let it.
If you are ready to work for yourself, then do it.
Let’s be real. (There’s an awful lot of not real on the internet, and I hope you know you won’t find that stuff here.)
I am not (even though I do joke about it) working from my couch in my jammies. I am putting on pants, and choosing to work when I would rather not. I am spending every free moment I have learning more to improve the way I do what I am doing.
It is hard to work for yourself. It is hard to make something – with your bare hands – that amounts to anything.
If it was easy, everyone would be doing it.
But here’s the thing. It’s also hard to hate what you do, hate paying some else to raise your kids, hate that you’re trading two hours of sleep every day for two hours on the train.
It might be the path of least resistance, but it’s still hard.
So choose your hard.
Related: How to Start a Blog and Make Money From Home
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I am so glad for your success. I have four children and am a single mom. No help from anyone, no family etc. I hate leaving them to go to work 40 plus hours a week. I started my blog in late Feb. Havent made any money yet but have invested quite a bit in courses, ConvertKit, and web hosting for three years. Not having the luck with tailwind like everyone claims to have but determined to stick with it. I can’t keep taking orders from a boss I don’t respect, yes i really would like to throat punch him..lol
HI Deanna! Late February is not long ago – don’t loose heart and keep going! I certainly didn’t make any money in the first few months either. Tailwind isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, in my opinion either 😛 I wish you all the best, you gotta get away from that boss.
Deanna, I have been on the same path of freeing myself from the 9-5 grind. Would much rather grind all day long for my future than someone else. I’m sure most of us entrepreneurs have experienced the same feelings of wanting to throat punch our boss just ONE TIME and have no consequences delivered..
How long have you been blogging? Your site looks great by the way.
You are such an inspiration to me! All of your words hit home. I am a little older than you (my youngest baby is 14) and trying to quit my miserable job. I am having some pinning success from what I have learned from your book and am now reading it again. I need to write more content, but I am getting there. You rock!
HI Lori!! I am so excited that you are seeing some Pinterest Success! Congrats! And I think YOU rock 🙂 (And we allllll need more content lol. Just keep going!)
Thank you so, so much for this post. I’ve got my domain name and signed up for a few free courses, but I’ve been too scared to invest in my blog (that EBA course is pricey!). But you just gave me the courage to do it. I stumbled on this post via Pinterest but I’m definitely going to check out more posts! Thank you so much. (I just had my LO almost five months ago!!)
HI Brooks 🙂 Yes, EBA is pricey! It was a stretch for me for sure. But so worth it in the end… and hey, congrats on tiny babe! Blogging will hopefully open up doors for you to stay with babe that you never even dreamed of – it’s an insane journey and I wish you all the best!
Congrats on being a huge success and such a short period of time. When you have determination and put in the effort, you can make it happen. A lot of it has been focus. So glad to hear this.
I’m making progress, but not as quickly as I would like. This month I will be much more focused (my dad was in the hospital, so that was a major distraction and my priorities were on him…which was right). But, now it’s refocus time. I think my category is a more challenging to monetize and slower growth. I have some new ideas now, so hopefully by end of June, things will be stronger.
Thank you for your inspiration.
Congratulations on your success Carly. I know that God lead you to the place you’re in right now. Luckily for me, I am still a college student (In my 4th year) and I still have more time to grow my freelance writing website more. I am earning an enough salary every month from my freelance clients and I am praying really hard to Jesus to help me win this battle!
Keep blogging, keep inspiring. God bless!
All the Best,
Jan Limark | Brotherly Creative
Thank you Jan! Yes – prayer is an important part of my strategy too 🙂 perhaps the MOST important actually!
This is so inspiring! I hope to one day write a post just like this, haha. Off to sign-up for your mini-course, can’t wait to see what else you can accomplish!
Thanks Brenda!! I can’t wait to read your post like this one!
That’s actually where I’m at right now. Took a crappy job , made the company over 100K in less than 7 months “Thank God for HIS help on that,” and got denied a pay raise. So I’m all in like you said on this content marketing thing. Making someone else rich off of my hard work off the sweat off my back and my talent is urking me!
Hello Caryl
Thanks for sharing, most people getting started in blogging hit a wall sooner than later,what to blog about,what to call the blog hosting and the 101 other things.
You have explained things so well and in an easy way to understand that any newbie will find really helpful
Yes – lots of bloggers do hit a wall, because blogging can be hard!
What’s everybody selling Elite Blog Academy?? Wish I could get some real advice instead of a big affiliate sales pitch!
HI Marie! Did it occur to you that “everybody” selling elite blog academy is doing that because it is genuinely they way that “everybody” grew successful blogs in a short time? It is an amazing course. You wouldn’t fault an engineer for mentioning his MIT education and you wouldn’t expect a red seal chef to have learned everything they know on google – or to set up a free class on “how to be an awesome chef”. Not to mention, you can not buy EBA right now, so this isn’t just a big affiliate sales pitch. There is plenty of real advice in here, not least of which is you NEED to invest in LEARNING how to do what you want to do PROPERLY. If you try to blog based solely on what you can learn for free through google, it will take you years and years to become successful.
Because part of these blogger’s ‘success’ stories is the money they are making off of pushing affiliate programs on everyone. TailWind, Elite Blog Academy….. bloggers are paid to push this stuff. They are copying what everyone else is doing.
Right, that’s the point of THIS post, these people are still making money without selling that stuff.
I’m happy to hear that you made it blogging in a year’s time after starting and quit your job successfully. Many bloggers don’t have direction where they want to go and just simply post whenever they feel like it. The Internet is pretty much open season to everyone who serious about blogging and content marketing and turning it into a full-time business because search engines thrive off of fresh and informative content whether it be from a blog or website. I’m just curious how often did you blog daily in order to achieve the status of quitting your day job. Did you blog just once a day or more than that? 🙂
And out of curiosity, would you be interested in an online interview sometime and discussing your humble beginnings to blogging greatness? 🙂
Thanks so much for your response in advance and talk to you soon!
I’ve only just recently found your site, after clicking on several Pins of yours. I guess I’m just gravitating towards the info you’re putting out there.
As someone who’s treated their blog like an unimportant hobby for the last 7 (yes 7!) years, I’m a new mom and looking to make it my full time job. I’ve narrowed topics and tried to start branding. Because I’ve let it all hang loose for the better part of a decade, I’m struggling to get things moving in the right direction.
Your blog, and more specifically, your articles about blogging, have really been a valuable resource for me. I’m sure it’s just a drop in the bucket at this point, but you’ve made a new fan.
Thank you!
HI Sam! You’re so welcome! WOW 7 years is a long time – you must have a wealth of amazing content to work with already stockpiled 🙂 I’m jealous! It’s so exciting that you’re tackling the full time blogging thing- I wish you all the best (and congrats on the new momness… it’s even better than blogging 😉 )
How encouraging to see another person who wants to treasure every moment of her baby’s life (except for time spent blogging, of course!) 😉 I am also staying at home now and hope to be able to pay some of our bills by writing! I wish you lots of luck!
(Yes, of course the blogging time is important too 😉 ) I wish YOU lots of luck too Anna – it’s so amazing to be able to stay at home and still feel like you’re contributing financially!
Thanking you for sharing the information you have learned about blogging. It is scary to start a blog, spend money, try to write great posts, monetize it, and then find ways to get others to read it. As a newbie blogger, I can use all of the help I can get!
HI Rae!! It is a very uphill journey for sure… there are still days now where I feel like I have NO IDEA WHAT I’M DOING! But I’m loving learning and I wish you all the best in your learning too 🙂
congrats on your success. just wanted to say how much I enjoyed actually reading your page. there are only two ads and they stayed in place. one on the far right and one across the bottom. I cannot read a blog that has constant pop ups and I mean constant where you are trying to read. I give up and close the page.
HI Dianne ! Yes, my ads are managed by a FANTASTIC network (Adthrive) and they are very careful not to chase anyone away – that defeats the purpose! lol
Hi, Carly;
I just came about your blog and I love it! Looking forward to following you and learning more from you. I recently lost my career to Multiple sclerosis, so I’m “Starting Over” with a new blog of my own. I have learned a lot from just this one post, and look forward to gleaning more wisdom from you. Thank you for sharing your gift with others.
Blessings,
Kimberly (aka, Casey)
HI Casey!! I’m sorry to hear about the MS – that’s a difficult thing to face! But GOOD FOR YOU for making the most and getting going with a blog. You will have SO much to share with people, and blogging is such an amazing way to share! Looking forward to seeing what you create 🙂
CARLY!!! 🙂 I love how you give God all the glory! 🙂 He is so faithful and I love reading your posts about how much success God has given you with blogging! 🙂 I have been blogging for a year and a half but went full time when I had my first child ( a boy) in Sept. I worked like 50 + hours at first and just recently I started making “real” money. God is faithful. 🙂
P.S. I love your book! I am currently trying out the manually pinning method!
HI Latasha!! YES – Everyday God astounds me with the way He has blessed this blog. I just still can not believe it sometimes!! Thank you for reading <3 (I'd love to hear how manual pinning goes for you! And congrats on the baby AND the blogging success - WOOHOO!)
Congrats on all your success. I started a blog in late April and I’ve been working really hard on making great content myself. I personally work part-time from home and it’s only made me hungrier to be a stay-at-home mom. I’m dying to stop working on someone else’s to-do list. I don’t want to throat punch anyone, but I do want to get away from the crazy. I like tailwind myself, but I’m skeptical to paying full price for it now that my free trial is over. What do you like best for scheduling pins on pinterest? I’ve read others recommend Board Booster and I don’t know which one to pull the trigger on.
HI Katie! I’m the WORST person to ask… I recommend 100% manual pinning. I don’t schedule any of my pins, and I believe that is a large part of the reason I have great Pinterest traffic. I Have a book about this – https://www.mommyonpurpose.com/pinteresting-strategies/
Thank you for this post! I’m very happy for your success and it inspires me to not quit. I started blogging last year and just recently put ads and started using amazon links. I’m a stay at home mom but it’s been very difficult and I need extra income but do not want anyone raising my kids. I get 20 page views and not making income. This is a huge motivation that it’s possible. I won’t be watching tv, cleaning, cooking, sleeping and make it happen lol
Xoxo,
Jenny
Hi Jenny!! I’m so glad you enjoyed the post! IT really is an uphill battle to make a full time income from a blog but it is totally worth the effort! I wish you ALL the best 🙂 xx
Hey,this seems very interesting and inspiring.Even I started my own blog, although not making any substantial money. But,the feeling of working for yourself and building an asset is really soothing.I am actually enjoying this adventurous blogging journey.
“It is hard to work for yourself. It is hard to make something – with your bare hands – that amounts to anything.If it was easy, everyone would be doing it. ” so true. One needs to be calm and have patience in the blogging field.
HI Harleen – yes… PATIENCE is so important! Just keep going – the making money part takes some time to figure out. 🙂
I have read so many of these kinds of blogs and I am so glad to have stumbled upon yours! I think it resonates more with me than others because your story is similar to mine. I am an avid book reader/lover and have always dreamed of writing, unfortunately, it is not something that gets a whole lot of support when you tell people that. I have an idea and some hopes for a blog (and more) and would truly love some advice and feedback! Thanks!
Hi Sari!! Thanks for your comment! I hope if you choose to jump into blogging you just remember to take it slow and enjoy every minute of it!